How do I pull out an element name out for use as a apr

I have the following XML structure:
<contacts>
<contact>
     <name>xxxx</name>
     <title>Program Director</title>
     <phone>xxx.xxx.xxxx</phone>
     <email>
      <link mailto:href="mailto:xxxxxxx@xxxxxxxxxxx>xxxxxxx@xxxxxxxxxxx</link>
     </email>
</contact>
</contacts>

The children elements of contact vary slightly between different contact lists.  Because of this, the tables in which they appear should often have different headers (which would just be the name of that child element... ie name, title, phone, email ... in this case).  I tried using the recommendation in the FAQ under the first table section but i couldn't get it to work for children elements instead of the attributes.  Any help is appreciated.
eric


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