jumping out of a loop revisited

I am a bit confused. The problem is that I don't know the position of the
References and LinksForGenus children (may vary) for which different
processing will apply:

Grasslands is the parent.

I have 3 potential templates:

1. Is there a way I can say select all children except where child name is
LinksForTheGenus and References in the top for-each statement:
 <xsl:for-each select="Grasslands/*[position()&gt;3 and text()]">
    <h3><font color="#00007f"><i><xsl:value-of
select="name()"/></i></font></h3>
	<p><font color="#008000"><xsl:value-of select="."/></font></p>
     </xsl:for-each>

2.   <xsl:template match= "Grasslands/LinksForTheGenus/Link">
    <h3><a NAME="Label0045"></a><font color="#00007F"><i>Links for the
genus:</i></font></h3>
      <ul>
     <xsl:for-each select="Grasslands/LinksForTheGenus/Link">
      <li><font color="#008000"> <xsl:value-of
select="Address"/>;&#xA;<xsl:value-of select="Name"/> </font></li>
      </xsl:for-each>
      </ul>
     </xsl:template>

3.     <xsl:template match="Grasslands/References/Ref">
     <font color="#008000"> <xsl:value-of select="Name"/>&#xA; <xsl:value-of
select="Year"/>;&#xA;</font>
      </xsl:for-each>
      </xsl:template>


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